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Let's Pretend This Never Happened: A Mostly True Memoir

Vista Book Group: Let's Pretend This Never Happened: A Mostly True Memoir

The Vista Book Group met in November to discuss Let’s Pretend This Never Happened: A Mostly True Memoir by Jenny Lawson. Lawson writes the popular blog TheBlogess.com, and Let’s Pretend This Never Happened was voted as the best humor book of 2012 on Goodreads.com.

“This book is totally true, except for the parts that aren’t. It’s basically like Little House on the Prairie but with more cursing.” After this opening line Ms. Lawson goes on to tell stories from her “violently rural” upbringing in West Texas, through to her present life as a blogger with her supportive husband and young daughter. Most of the stories are funny, and most of them are incredibly bizarre. Her childhood stories mostly center on her larger-than-life taxidermist father, whom she describes as “kind of a total lunatic.” In her adult life, Ms. Lawson has dealt with miscarriages, social anxiety, and rheumatoid arthritis. She recounts these struggles with sarcastic, self-deprecating humor and some incredibly foul language (this is not a book for the easily offended). Chapter titles like “I Was a Three Year Old Arsonist”, “A Series of Helpful Post-It Notes I left Around the House for My Husband This Week” and “And Then I Snuck a Dead Cuban Alligator on an Airplane” give you an idea of Lawson’s sense of humor.

This was a highly enjoyable and often hilarious discussion, with group members recalling their favorite stories from the book or highlighting their favorite quotes. Most of our group found Lawson to be extremely funny, although there were a few people who weren’t quite as fond of the author’s style. While they still thought it was an entertaining read, they just couldn’t connect to her. Throughout the book, Lawson explores themes of family and individuality, while also laughing at herself as a means of getting through dark times.

Each member of the group rated the book on a scale of one to five, and our average score came to 4.15. Almost everyone had a great time reading the book and even those who gave it a lower score were still able to find some good things to say about it. If you’re looking for a memoir that is heavy on laugh-out-loud situations and sarcastic commentary (and you don’t mind a bit of taxidermy), Let’s Pretend This Never Happened just might be the book for you!

A few read-alikes we came up with are:

  • Ali in Wonderland, by Ali Wentworth
  • Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?, by Mindy Kaling
  • Bossypants, by Tina Fey
  • Chelsea Chelsea Bang Bang, by Chelsea Handler
  • Running With Scissors , by Augusten Burroughs
  • A Girl Named Zippy, by Haven Kimmel
  • My Boyfriend Wrote a Book About Me, by Hilary Winston
  • Me Talk Pretty One Day, by David Sedaris
  • Please join us on Wednesday, January 22, from 6:00 to 7:30 when we will be discussing Beautiful Ruins, by Jess Walter. We will meet in Film and Sound, located on the first level of the Richland Library Main. If you would like to pick up a copy of the book, please call 929-3400 or stop by the General Reference/Research Desk on the second level of Richland Library Main. We look forward to seeing you there!

    Please note: Vista Book Group will not meet in December. See you next year!


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