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Breaking the Cycle of Abuse

How To Move Beyond Your Past To Create An Abuse-free Future

By Beverly Engel

"A beacon of hope for women and men who fear that they will pass the abuse they have suffered on to their children, partners, or employees. Humane and compassionate but also clear and down to earth, this is a wonderful contribution to the literature on healing."
--Lundy Bancroft, author of When Dad Hurts Mom and Why Does He Do That?

"In this remarkably powerful, wise, and compassionate book, Beverly Engel leads readers step by step through a program that will help survivors of emotional, physical, or sexual abuse in childhood to heal from their wounds so they don't need to re-enact their abusive pasts. She offers expert advice and strategies to help parents and would-be parents avoid doing to their children what was done to them and helps both abusers and victims in emotionally and physically abusive relationships make vitally important changes in their relationships."
--Susan Forward, Ph.D., author of Toxic Parents and Emotional Blackmail

If you were emotionally, physically, or sexually abused as a child or adolescent, or if you experienced neglect or abandonment, it isn't a question of whether you will continue the cycle of abuse but rather a question of how--whether you will become an abuser or continue to be a victim. In this breakthrough book, Beverly Engel, a leading expert on emotional and sexual abuse, explains how to stop the cycle of abuse once and for all. Her step-by-step program provides the necessary skills for gaining control over emotions, changing negative attitudes, learning healthy ways of communicating, healing the damage from prior abuse, and seeking out support.

Throughout, Engel shares many dramatic personal stories including her own experiences with abusive behavior. Breaking the Cycle of Abuse gives you the power to shatter abusive patterns for good and offers a legacy of hope and healing for you and your family.

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0471657751


Format: Book
Author: Engel, Beverly
Title: Breaking the cycle of abuse : how to move beyond your past to create an abuse-free future / Beverly Engel.
Publisher Date: Hoboken, N.J. : John Wiley & Sons, c2005.
Subject: Family violence Victims of family violence Sexual abuse victims Psychological abuse
Isbn: 0471657751 (cloth)
Current Holds: 0
System Items Available: 2
System Items Total: 2
Call Number: 362.82924 Eng
Oclc: 54803586
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Bib Id: 218511

Format: Book
Author: Engel, Beverly
Title: Breaking the cycle of abuse : how to move beyond your past to create an abuse-free future / Beverly Engel.
Publisher, Date: Hoboken, N.J. : John Wiley & Sons, c2005.
Description: x, 278 p. ; 25 cm.
Subjects: Family violence
Subjects: Victims of family violence
Subjects: Sexual abuse victims
Subjects: Psychological abuse
Notes: Includes bibliographical references (p. 263-269) and index.
Contents: Understanding the legacy of abuse -- What will be your legacy? -- Assessing your risk factors -- Why we do to others (and to ourselves) what was done to us -- Facing the truth and facing your feelings -- Coming out of denial -- Learn to identify and manage your emotions -- How to identify and manage your shame -- Managing your anger -- Coping with fear : how to deal with fear, anxiety, stress, and control issues -- Abuse prevention strategies -- How to prevent partner abuse -- How to prevent child abuse -- If you have already become abusive -- If you have already been abused or established a victim pattern -- Long-term recovery strategies -- Emotionally separating from your parents -- Facing the truth about your family legacy -- Breaking into the dysfunctional family system -- Continue to heal.
LCCN: 2004006065
ISBN: 0471657751 (cloth)
Requests: 0
Available Copies: 2
Total Copies: 2
Call Number: 362.82924 Eng