- Savannah G.
- Friday, May 01
Welcome once again to my series; A Year of Tropes. This month we’re talking about the Grumpy/Sunshine trope!
As you already know, I’m not a big fan of lying. I like to think of myself as a pretty straight shooter, so you can believe me when I say Grumpy/Sunshine is one of my favorite relationship tropes!
If I were an animal, I imagine I’d probably be a cat. A little aloof, mysterious, and a sucker for a good laser pointer. And my best friend would probably be a wiener dog because she loves a frank!
Just kidding! She’d be a corgi because she’s so cuddly, friendly, and everyone who meets her thinks she’s just the cutest thing ever!
In our relationships as best friends, we kind of embody the Grumpy/Sunshine trope, which is to say that the trope doesn’t have to always apply to romantic relationships. It could describe parents with their children, siblings, or (obviously) best friends.
That said, much of the popularity of this trope focuses on romantic relationships over other meaningful connections such as the ones stated above.
Take for instance two of my favorite movies as examples:
If you’re familiar with this series, you know every movie I pick is my favorite movie 😂. To be fair to me, I’m not big on watching TV, so I get my audio-visual fix through the ultimate form of cinema – movies.
And these two are movies that hold a special place for me. When I had access to nothing but my great aunt’s collection of VHS’s and TBS, these were two movies I didn’t mind watching over and over again.
10 Things I Hate About You follows Cameron James, new to Padua High School, who wants desperately to date It Girl Bianca Stratford. There’s only one problem, Bianca is absolutely forbidden by her father to date anyone until her somewhat cantankerous older sister finds a boyfriend of her own. And since Kat – the aforementioned cantankerous sister – refuses to sully herself with the pishposh of high school romance, Cameron and Joey (Mr. Popular who also wants to date Bianca) launch a somewhat sinister plan. They hire Australian bad boy Patrick Verona to seduce Kat with all his… teenagey wiles? As you can imagine, many a shenanigan ensue.
Not only was 10 Things I Hate About You inspired by The Taming of the Shrew by William Shakespeare, it also sparked my own life long crush on Heath Ledger.
10 Things I Hate About You is quite the cultural powerhouse when it comes to teen romances. For its time, Kat was a pretty extreme character who bucked the typical typecast, and that she remained mostly untamed was a feat within itself for a genre that doesn’t always look too kindly at strong willed female protagonists. Typically, such a character would have to learn a lesson and ease up on her defiant ways to ultimately earn the love she craved.
Kat does soften but only because she first feels seen and admired for who she is by Patrick. It’s not the perfect movie, obviously, but I think it does Grumpy/Sunshine rather well between Kat and Patrick.
A Low Down Dirty Shame likewise features a grumpy character (Andre Shame played by Keenen Ivory Wayans) falling in love with a sunshine character (Peaches played by Jada Pinkett-Smith). But that’s where most of the similarities between the two movies end.
A Low Down Dirty Shame follows former Detective turned private investigator Andre Shame as his last case as a detective comes back to haunt him. He learns that the drug kingpin he thought he’d killed, and who Shame blames for the death of his squad, is actually alive and looking for his ex-girlfriend turned informer, Angela. Sonny Rothmiller, his former colleague turned DEA agent, charges Shame with tracking her down and bringing her in for her own protection. The only problem is… Angela is Shame’s ex-girlfriend too.
Obliviously, things get very complicated for Shame and Peaches.
Unlike 10 Things I Hate About You, critics did not love A Low Down Dirty Shame. It was even rated in a few "Top 10 Worst Movies” lists at the time of its release. To be fair, A Low Down Dirty Shame isn’t my favorite title by Keenan Ivory Wayans, but it remains beloved in my heart anyways for its high quotability and re-watch rate in my family.
And therein lies the beauty of tropes, as I’m so found of harping about. Two vastly different stories brought together only through their use of one particular trope.
Tropes don’t have to be the end all be all to a story. In my opinion, tropes are at their best when they’re used as just one of the building blocks to bring a story together.
Change of Heart
Some Like It Scot
Can't Get Enough of the Duke
Her Time Traveling Duke
Emily Wilde's Encyclopaedia of Faeries
Under Loch and Key
Outdrawn
10 Things That Never Happened
Act Your Age, Eve Brown
You Had Me at Happy Hour
The Romantic Agenda
Violet Thistlewaite is Not a Villain Anymore
All the Right Notes
Hot for Preacher
Give Me Butterflies
Hearts in Circulation
Love is a War Song
The Book Tour
Honey and Heat
Sunshine and Spice
Overdrive
Overdue
Let's Give 'em Pumpkin to Talk About
Just for the Cameras
The Baby Dragon Cafe
Mickey Chambers Shakes It Up
Role Model
Story of My Life
Church Girl
All's Fair in Love and Pickleball
And then There Was the One
10 Marchfield Square